On
Super Bowl Sunday, we Missourians are super happy to have the Chiefs in the big game for the second time after their long dry spell. Jim was a dedicated fan and
proudly wore his Chiefs’ gear through the years of heartbreaking losses. He
always looked forward to the next year when he was sure they would go to the
Super Bowl.
For
years, the Chiefs playing in the Super Bowl was on my “bucket” list. I was
beginning to wonder if I would live long enough to see the big day. I would
say, foolishly of course, “I don’t even care if they win. I just want them to
make it!” Well, I reneged on that statement immediately after they won the
Lamar Hunt Trophy.
I truly
regretted that Jim didn’t get to see his beloved Chiefs go back to the Super
Bowl. When Jim was a teenager, he boxed at a Boy’s Club in Kansas City where he
met Lenny Dawson.
When
Jim was in the early stages of dementia, he decided he wanted a Chiefs’ coat. One
weekend, we looked everywhere in town, but he didn’t find the one he wanted. I
went to work on Monday and when I got home, Jim proudly showed me the Kansas
City Chiefs’ coat he had bought.
“Where
did you get the coat?” I asked.
“Kansas
City,” he replied. “They didn’t want to let me in. Said I needed a card.”
“Was it
Sam’s?”
“Yeah.
I told them I wanted a Chiefs’ coat.” He went on in his broken vocabulary to
tell me that he had told them he was a Vietnam veteran and had fought for
freedom. Freedom, which to him, meant they shouldn’t keep him out of a store he
wanted to go into.
After
more prodding, Jim finally related that someone made the decision to let him in
the store, and he paid for the coat with his debit card.
“How
much did it cost?” I asked
“I have
no idea,” he replied.
“Well,
it is a nice looking coat. I guess I’ll find out how much it cost when I get the
bank statement.”
Some years the Chiefs were so bad that fans were wearing bags over their heads at the games. Jim, on the other hand, sported his collection of Chiefs’ shirts at the nursing home, unaware of who was winning the game on his TV. He could see the Chiefs playing and that was good enough for him.
As the
Chiefs go the Super Bowl today, it is on the heels of the news that former
Chief’s head coach Marty Schottenheimer was moved to a hospice care facility.
Schottenheimer, now seventy-seven years old, was diagnosed with Alzheimer’s in
2014. I hope he gets to watch the Super Bowl today. Although he coached several
different teams throughout twenty-one seasons, I’m sure he will be rooting for
the team wearing the red shirts.
Super
Bowl Sunday—and the Chiefs are playing. Doesn’t get much better than that.
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© February 2021 by L.S. Fisher
http://earlyonset.blogspot.com
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