Somehow,
I don’t believe that’s the only thing the world needs. I’ve done some deep
thinking, and I came up with what I want to call my “short” list.
1) Respect. Like love, respect is in short supply. Somewhere along
the way, we’ve ceased to respect people who believe differently. Our
disagreements may lay in politics, religion, economic status, country of
origin, or an entire bevy of talents or intelligence. Throughout life, our DNA
and experiences form us into an individual human being. Although most of us won’t
admit it, everyone has prejudices about one thing or another. The key is to
respect others and overcome unreasonable prejudices to the best of our
abilities. Respect costs us nothing, but pays dividends for life.
2) Commonsense. The
world seems to be in short supply of commonsense. People believe you have to be
all “in” or all “out.” Every little thing is either all “right” or all “wrong.”
People are either “good” or “bad.” Without commonsense, you will see the world
as black and white. I know, some of you will say, rather than black and white,
we are talking shades of gray. I’ve probably said that myself, but I’ve changed
my mind. When you make decisions by rote, rather than reasoning, you fail to
see the living color that surrounds you. By not thinking for yourself, you will
miss the wondrous rainbow of life.
3) Unconditional Love.
When it comes to love, we want to receive as much as we give. Dementia will
strip away those expectations. Jim had aphasia and seldom spoke, but sometimes
when I told him I loved him, he would say, “I love you too.” More often, love
was a tender look in his eyes or the way he raised his eyebrows when he looked
at me. In my journal I remarked one time that he said “I love you” like he
really meant it. My love for Jim was founded in who he was before dementia, but
I loved him “as is” throughout the disease.
So in
addition to “love, sweet, love,” the world needs more respect, commonsense, and
individuals with dementia need unconditional
love. I can’t change the world and wouldn’t if I could. What’s right for me may
be wrong for you. Let’s face it, if we all thought alike or acted alike, the
world would be a mighty boring place. I’ll be me, and you be you.
Copyright
© August 2020 by L.S. Fisher
http://earlyonset.blogspot.com
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