Our Walk to End Alzheimer’s group
participated in the annual 4th of July Parade. My friend WyAnn had
prepared a sign that said, Imagine a Land
Free from Alzheimer’s. Along the parade route, there isn’t much time to
think of anything, but after the excitement died down, I couldn’t stop thinking
about that sign.
What if our land was free from
Alzheimer’s? Think of how much that would impact the 5.8 million American
families who have a loved one with Alzheimer’s disease. Imagine what a
wonderful world this would be.
Our memories, personalities, and
skills are the most basic part of our lives. Yet, dementia steals those
precious qualities from people we love. Our mothers become our daughters. Our
fathers become our sons. Our spouses become our children as we love them and
care for them. Collectively, we American families provide 18.5 billion hours each
year taking care of our own.
From personal experience, I can tell
you that being a primary caregiver for someone with dementia is not for sissies
or the squeamish. In the early stages, my caregiver duty was to keep Jim on
track. I went to the doctor with him and kept track of his medication. His
skill levels began to diminish. A man who once had the ability to tear a car
down and put it back together would dismantle a vacuum sweeper or a VCR, but couldn’t
reassemble the parts.
In the middle stages, caregiving was
more intense. The day started with helping him bathe and get dressed for the
day. These jobs became harder as the disease progressed, and he needed more
help with toileting and incontinence. Jim only needed about four hours sleep, and
I couldn’t sleep with him wandering around the house, or worse yet outside in
the dark. His wandering was dangerous and along with other behavior problems,
it was obvious he needed a safer environment.
Caregiving doesn’t end at the
nursing home door! Some caregivers are comfortable with providing emotional support,
interacting with staff, and supervising care. My comfort level was to make sure
Jim was clean, fed, and comfortable. For the five years Jim was in nursing
care, I, or a member of our family, checked on him almost every day and
assisted with his care.
The clock is ticking. Every 65
seconds another person in our land begins the Alzheimer’s journey. Imagine if
that didn’t happen, or if it did, it could be cured. Well, if wishing and
hoping could make it happen, dementia wouldn’t exist.
According to the Alzheimer’s
Association, Alzheimer’s will triple in a generation if we don’t have a medical
breakthrough. We can’t have a breakthrough without research. When I first went
to DC to advocate for Alzheimer’s research funding, NIH had budgeted less than $500
million for research. I know that to you and me that sounds like a lot of
money, but it is barely a blip on the radar of research possibilities. Research
was stalled at a time when it should have been accelerated. If you don’t see
that, look at how our country used the necessary resources to find an effective
treatment for HIV and AIDS. HIV/AIDS was once the inevitable death sentence
that Alzheimer’s is today.
It has taken us two decades to reach
a level of research funding that could bring about a positive result. Now, we
need to be relentless in advocating for research dollars. We cannot afford to wait
another two decades for a cure. The clock is ticking.
Imagine if our land was free from
Alzheimer’s disease.
4 comments:
Hi Linda,
I am enjoying reading your blog and your story. My mom was diagnosed with Alzheimer's at age 59. That was 10 years ago. My sisters and I have started a blog to document her story and that of my dad, who cares for her full time at home. It helps! http://runforthesun-alz.com/
Thanks, jkk. Look forward to reading your blog.
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